Month: July 2008

  • Simple Pleasures in July


    Sunrise from my front yard looking east


    At the same moment, the moon was setting in the west


    Celebrating the patriarch’s birthday…72 years
    Barbequed Chicken
    Corn on the Cob
    Potato Salad
    Cold Watermelon
    Black Bean Salad
    Rustic Bread
    Rhubarb Cobbler
    Homemade Ice Cream


    A fun and frugal place setting.
    Mix and match dishes: hand me downs from my daughter-in-law
    Cloth napkins: 25¢ at Burlington Coat Factory

    ~   Mutual appreciation of our video choices. 
    How often is the whole family eager to watch the same thing?
    We work heartily on our after-dinner chores
    so we can watch an hour of DVD or video.
    Kenneth Branagh’s World War 1 in Color
    PBS Home Video The Great War
    and
    Foyle’s War.


    ~ Wildflowers by the edge of road

    ~  After two weeks of working full time crunching numbers for the pharmacy,
    I have all day today to be home.
    Happy, happy sigh.

    Agenda:
    Bake bread for the freezer
    Make poppyseed cakes to freeze for husband’s lunches.
    Organizing my pantry
    Ironing, while listening to Mark Helprin, my new intriguing author.
    Answering a few emails
    Singing
    Working on 100 Species Challenge
    Call a brother or sister or several

    I love days at home.  Alone or not. 

    Not everybody does.  I have a girlfriend who goes crazy if she has to stay home.  She loves to be out: out walking, out shopping, out driving, out anywhere.  Her home is lovely.  She just has to move.  I read a biography of Laura Bush and laughed aloud when the extended Bush family had a hard time understanding how she could sit in one spot for hours reading. 

    What about you?  Home or out?


  • The Guns of August

    Before this summer the sum total of my knowledge of The Great War could be contained in a dozen words: assasination, Archduke, Ferdinand, Sarajevo, France, Germany, England, America, trench, doughboy, western, front. 

    It was an ignorance which niggled and gnawed.  Not that I’ve had any occasion to answer the question, What was World War One about? – but I knew I didn’t know.  Now I have the opposite problem: I’m steeped in WWI and want to talk about what I’m learning, but it is a bit socially awkward to open conversations with discussions of lice in the trenches or the debacle of Gallipoli.

    Reading Barbara Tuchman’s The Guns of August was my first autodidactic step.  Tuchman limited her narrative to the events surrounding August 1914, the first month of the war.  Her first paragraph was dazzling, holding promise not only for education but for delight.  The pulse of her prose was so strong that it felt like reading a current event.  The subject is wretched, but the writing is rewarding.

    One rudimentary fact I learned from The Guns of August is how much the Franco-Prussian War of 1870 influenced the Great War.  Both France and Germany had been preparing for a re-match for decades.  France wanted the provinces of Alsace and Lorraine back; Germany expected France to attack and decided the best defense was to take the offense.

    Here is a sparkling necklace of sentences and phrases from this superlative book.   

    •   He knew how material success could gain public opinion; he forgot how moral failure could lose it, which too can be a hazard of war.

    •   In the interim two men formed a trans-Channel friendship which was to serve as the first cable for the building of a bridge.

    •   The new Czar, now forty-six, had learned nothing in the interval, and the impression of imperturbability he conveyed was in reality apathy – the indifference of a mind so shallow as to be all surface.

    •   …with the bellicose frivolity of senile empires…

    •   With their relentless talent for the tactless…

    •   He must convince the present, measure up to the past, and speak to posterity.

    •   Again and again the Germans returned to the assault, spending lives like bullets in the knowledge of plentiful reserves to make up the losses.

    •   During August, under the terrible test of live ammunition, Joffre was to scatter generals like chaff at the first sign of what he considered imcompetence or insufficient élan. 

    •   The vexing problem of war presented by the refusal of the enemy to behave as expected in his own best interest beset them.

    •   In appearance a sharp, alert bantam, alive with energy…

    •   With a rear commander’s contempt for a front commander’s caution…

    •   Mr. Whitlock was to hear so often the story of one or another German general being shot by the son or sometimes the daughter of a burgomaster that it seemed to him the Belgians must have bred a special race of burgomasters’ children like the Assassins of Syria. 

    •   Joffre arrived early in the morning … to lend him sangfroid out of his own bottomless supply.

    •   Each with its burden of soldiers … the taxis drove off, as evening fell — the last gallantry of 1914, the last crusade of the old world.

  • Letters from Mom – Broken Washing Machine and the Flu

    Here are some excerpts from another letter. (Previous letters here.) I was about three weeks old when this was written.  Seven children in a country home, husband away teaching college, the washing machine is broken, the part came in the mail and she is thinking about fixing it herself.  Bills and budgets are an ever present dilemma.  The last paragraph is a rare admission of discouragement.

    Friday, 10-18-57

    Dearest:

    It was good to get your letter yesterday – I should have had one in the mail to you, but I didn’t.  Listening to Paul Harvey ruins my letter writing time.  [..] The radio has been on the fritz today.  I managed to hear most of Tozer’s message* by staying right there to punch the buttons or do otherwise to get the contortion out of it – not on the line, but in the radio.  Danny [3 years old] is good at tuning it in.  He has also been a good dish wiper this week.  His cold isn’t any better – just gets some improvement when he plays in the water or runs outside without a jacket. [...]

    I’ll pay the telephone bill today – that is nearly $8 – several long distance calls on it.  And then the rest will get some gas, baby food, eggs, and groc.  Sorta hard to figure out just what is the most imp. things on the list. [...]

    Game [football] is canceled for tonight because of flu.  It is on the increase in the school here.  Each day more out, and our youngsters have all been exposed now with someone in their room coming down with it during school and being sent home with a temp of 103 or so.  I refuse to worry – I could get sick just thinking about what would happen if we all got it.  I have been trying to see that we all get the necessary rest and been using plenty of orange juice and vitamins to keep their resistance up.  It is in the Lord’s hands and He gives strength when needed.  You cause me more concern by your irregular living, if you should get it.

    Now I must close – surely do miss you.  Guess I didn’t write partly because I was just too lonesome and didn’t want to sound too sad.  Those spells come when I feel as though I just have to see you, and anticipating a week end without you seems too much.  I just must not think ahead to weekends but take each day as it comes.  And the thought of you using so much time and energy and losing out on your studies just to come home doesn’t cheer me any either.  All in all it is not the most satisfactory situation, but it is the best one for us now or else the Lord would change it, of that I’m sure.  I love you honey, we all do, and we are praying for you daily.

    Always,

    Nellie

    * The next day she wrote:  Very interested in Tozer’s message yesterday – some questions to ask you when you get home.  Wonder where women without husbands get their questions answered?  I could get along without that, but I couldn’t get along without you and your love.  I still marvel that you love me, but so very glad that you do.

  • Magna Carta

    Today marks the anniversary of the signing of the Magna Carta in 1215.  

    We visited Runnymede in April.  The funny thing is that my strongest memory, a ditty which occasionally flutters unbidden through my thoughts, is a sign by the road as we entered town: Please Don’t Speed In Runnymede. 

    Also noteworthy: it was Americans (the American Bar Association) who put up a monument to the Magna Carta.


    the walk to the monument

  • A Throat Lumpish Day


    Geese on the lawn by the Columbia River

    Early in the morning, we heard of the death of Tony Snow.  We really liked Tony Snow.  And he’s very, very close to our age.  Like us, he had three kids.  We will miss you, Tony.

    The mail delivered a Jackson Browne CD.  We plopped it in the player and a blue funk sort of followed us around the house.  There is no one who sings sad songs better than Jackson Browne.  It fit our mournful mood.

    A young friend of ours was married this afternoon.  It was an expurgated wedding ceremony: any mention of God, Lord, ceremony, or sacrifice was removed.  The Officiant was a twenty-something man who received a license to perform a marriage ceremony over the internet. The word “covenant” and “husband” and “wife” had one mention a piece, but it was mostly partner, love, listen, laugh, love, partner.  The couple was thoroughly consistent with their beliefs, but the overall effect was disheartening. 

    The Anniversary Dance (where all married couples dance, and start sitting down if they’ve been married 1 year, 5 years, etc.) was the only time Curt and I danced, singing to each other, “Can I have this dance for the rest of my life?“  The last two couples standing were the bride’s two sets of grandparents.  We all applauded them with abandon. 

    One Grandma was hunched over at the waist, her husband tenderly holding her.  They have been married 65 years. 

    The other grandparents barely moved, just swayed and smiled.  That Grandpa, battling cancer-with that toxic look of a chemo patient- used all his reserves to dance one last dance with his wife of 52 years.  His sun is setting, and he appears to have months or even weeks left.  A very throat-lumpish day.

    Tonight’s sunset

  • Fine Art Friday – More Millais


    Message From the Sea
    John Everett Millais

    Picture courtesy of Art Renewal Center.

    For a larger image, click here.

  • Diet For a Word Bird


    Less chew,
    More eschew.

  • Letters from Mom – Sick Kids

    A lovely sentence from my early morning reading of WWI novel by Anne Perry No Graves As Yet:

    He knew they had written every week, long letters full of thoughts and feelings, trivial details of domestic life, more a matter of affection than of news.

    This letter from Nellie to John was written the day after the first letter I posted.  Seven children and the flu!

    Tuesday 10-08-57

    My Dearest John,

    It is such a beautiful day that I feel like working in the yard – but not really as my back is not yet strong enough for that.

    David [my oldest brother] is feeling better this morning and wants to go to school this afternoon – their room has a football game this afternoon.  But this morning they were fixing shredded wheat [odd family custom of fixing shredded wheat by pouring boiling water over it, draining the water, adding a pat of butter, no milk] and a bowl of hot water tipped on him – his stomach – and really blistered it, a large patch just above the navel.  So he won’t play – he had hoped to, even tho’ I said that it was too soon for that after being sick.

    Dorothy [my oldest sister] went to a 4-H meeting last night to see what it was about.  Hesper took her and Norma – for cooking and sewing.  They would enjoy it, but I was disappointed when she came home smelling like smoke.  She said the leader smoked right during the meeting. [...]

    They [older children] have been helping out very well, and I have been getting my rest.  Little jobs are piling up, but I hope to soon be able to do more and get at them.

    I made some home-made noodles last night.  The children really went for them with some boiling beef.  I’ll have to do that from now on – very simple and good. [...]

    Now I must get lunch ready.  Scrambled eggs for my invalids.  Danny, the clown, holds his stomach and groans, so that he can crawl up on the davenport with David!  That was yesterday as David has been up today doing school work.

    Je t’aime beaucoup, beaucoup – that will fool David.  He has been looking over my shoulder.

                    Always,

                    Nellie

  • 100 Species – Around the Yard

    1.  Clematis  This year my husband bought a trellis for our clematis (previously it grew up a post).  The most encouraging thing I read about clematis: “It should be noted that incorrect pruning will never bring an early death to clematis.”  Folk wisdom I picked up somewhere: “Clematis need sun on their shoulders and shade on their feet.”


     

    2. Garlic  This whimsical plant lives and breathes among my flowers.  I just learned that the curlicue thingies are called scapes.  I also learned that most garlic growers remove the scapes to promote greater bulb growth.  Further, they are edible and here is a recipe for Garlic Scape Pesto.  Pasta anyone?


    Can you spot the garlic on the left?

  • The Narrative of Ephemera

    Last weekend we had a last hurrah with our dear friends Jack and Lisa.  They moved to North Carolina last summer, but didn’t sell their house in the Northwest until recently.  They were back to pack; we went up to send them off. 

    Lisa is a master of organization.  Normally, her refrigerator has charts, lists and menus on the sides which are beautiful in their order.  This trip I had to be content with reading all the notes to the movers and watching her execute her moving plan. 

    The last battle to conquer was the garage.  One section had empty boxes which had been reserved for potential use, but not needed after all.  We got to work breaking them down for the recycle center. 

    Now boxes are boxes, right?  Empty containers to be re-used.

    Ah, my friend; so many boxes held a story in the empty spaces. 

    Lisa held up a box that had my brother Danny’s return address.  She remembered what was sent in the box, a gift for the girls (obviously my sister-in-law Valeri was behind that). 

    The one that delighted me was a box which had contained a case of baby formula.  The box had my name on the top right hand corner, with a notation “No Charge” on the side.  Fourteen years ago, Safeway had a drawing for a case of baby formula.  I phoned Lisa and asked which brand she preferred for her two  newly adopted daughters.  I entered the drawing and won! 

    A bucket of matches from various restaurants (do they still give those away?) took us back to our college days.

    Isn’t it amazing how a bit of cardboard glued together can evoke such memories? 

    Do you save boxes? 

    I used to love shoe boxes, but they’ve flimsified.

    Boot boxes make great mailing containers at Christmas.

    I love Amazon.com boxes.

    I really like Lang note card boxes – strong and pretty for small gifts.

    Paper boxes are wonderful: uniform, nice lids, great containers.

    What are your favorite boxes to save?