Month: June 2009

  • Six Panel Door

    A little Architecture Moment:  This style door, originally called a Cross and Open Bible door or a Christian door, was built in early colonial homes to mark that home as a Christian dwelling.  Look at the shape formed by the four top panels.  Can you see the cross?  The two bottom panels were meant to show an open Bible.   

     I learned this from my brother Jim, who takes free brochures (and actually reads them!) that are in racks in restaurants, shops and motels.  His kids razz him about trolling for free stuff. 

    This reminds me of Don and Naomi Cole, family friends, who put up a wooden sign-spotlighted-above their porch one Christmas: Jesus is Lord.  It stayed up after other Christmas decorations were removed, because they couldn't take it down in good conscience.  When I was in Jr. High and High School, I often walked by their house; it was my "safe house" I could run to if I felt threatened. 

    A local restaurant, a Greek takeout called Yia Yia Nikki's, has a sign above the door: GOD.  What does it mean and why is it about the door?  I must ask.

    Architecture is an area I'd love to explore.  It fascinates me how beliefs are reflected in stone, wood, glass and design.  All building is informed by our beliefs and values. 
      

  • Living in a Foreign Language

     


    Living in a Foreign Language: A Memoir of Food, Wine, and Love in Italy details the adventures of Michael Tucker and wife Jill Eickenberry in Umbria.  This book has so many parallels to Frances Mayes' Under the Tuscan Sun.  They both chronicle a year of fixing up a rustic farmhouse in Italy from an American's perspective. 

    Michael Tucker is a funny guy.  He's the guy that keeps the party going, full of stories and jokes.  His story has more for purveyors of pop-culture.  Most of his Italian friends and experiences are within the ex-patriot community.  He loves good food, but at the heart he is an entertainer.  Each chapter is framed and paced to tell a charming or funny story.  His language is salty, peppered too strongly with profanity for my tastes.  

    Frances Mayes' style is quite different.  Her book comes with recipes, thoughtful reflection about the cultural differences (particularly the pace of life), and a cast of Italian neighbors and workers.  I would recommend her take on Tuscan life over Michael Tucker's tale of Umbria.

    Here are several tidbits that tickled or tugged me from Tucker's book:

    Suddenly the cold wind of doubt blew up my pant leg.  I shivered.  It was at least 90 degrees outside.  (p.57)

    It seems we never had time to get things done because our days were filled to the brim with lingering.  Breakfast became a longer and longer linger.  Not mine, which is just coffee and a crossword puzzle.  But Jill and Caroline have a way of making breakfast into a full-act play which unfolds in long, slow, Chekhovian acts--from the yogurt and peaches, into the cheese, prosciutto, tomatotes and panini, into the biscotti dipped in chesnut honey, all washed down with tea. (p.95)

    The ricotta--literally "recooked" cheese--had a freshness that connected it in taste and smell to the milk of the animal it had just come from.

    [on his marriage]  For better or worse, we cultivate this closeness.  The better is obvious, I suppose.  The worse is that one of us will die first and the other will be left alone.  Some couples we know hedge against this eventuality by maintaining a distance, by emphasizing their individuality.  But that's not for us. (p.158)

    [dancing with his wife]  On one anniversary, back in the New York days, Jill surprised me with ballroom dancing lessons, while I had gotten her an evening of dancing at the Rainbow Room at the top of the Rockefeller Center--all unbeknownst to each other.  It was like our own little O'Henry story.

    [dancing with another woman] JoJo and I were not doing so well, either.  First of all, there was the question of who was leading. [...] I tried following as best I could, but moving backward with my right foot was a very odd way to begin a dance; I couldn't get the hang of it.  Not that it mattered -- Benny Goodman and JoJo were not in any way marching to the same drummer.  But by God she had enthusism!  At one point -- she was coming at me out of a spin at seventy miles an hour, minimum -- I frankly didn't know what to do with it.  My whole life flashed in front of my eyes.  Just standing my ground -- or God forbid trying to catch her in some way -- would have been to commit suicide.  I held out my arms wide, running back and forth like a shepherd, somehow herding her toward the center of the room.  We needed space. Help me, Jesus, we needed space. (p. 173)
     

            

  • Simple Gifts in May - The Late Edition

    ~   May means lilacs and asparagus.

    I love lilacs from afar (my husband is allergic).

    I enjoy asparagus close up.
    Yesterday a friend fixed it with butter and brown sugar.
    I admit that sounds a bit different.
    But it tasted yummy.

    Pizza tastes delicious.
    Our friend Isaiah ate pizza last week.
    He's coming home June 12th!!

    ~  The Lord gives and the Lord takes away.
    And the Lord gives back.
    Isaiah was given, taken away and is being given back.
    Blessed be the name of the Lord.

    ~ Baby Isaac was born last week to our friends. 
    Our church prayed publicly for a child to be born.
    Yesterday was Isaac's first day in church.  More tears of joy.

    ~  My husband is reading Andy Catlett: Early Travels.
    I love that he is reading Wendell Berry.
    Every murmur of appreciation
    is followed by a what? read it aloud! from me.
    Last night he read this, a perfect recap of our month.

    We measure time by its deaths, yes, and by its births.  For time is told also by life.  As some depart, others come.  The hand opened in farewell remains open in welcome. [...] And time that is told by death and birth is held and redeemed by love, which is always present.  Time, then, is told by love's losses, and by the coming of love, and by love continuing in gratitude for what is lost.  It is folded and enfolded and unfolded forever and ever, the love by which the dead are alive and the unborn welcomed into the womb.  The great question for the old and the dying, I think, is not if they have loved and been loved enough, but if they have been grateful enough for love received and given, however much.  No one who has gratitude is the onliest one.  Let us pray to be grateful to the last.

    ~  Perceptions are funny things.
    Recent visitors' perception of our church:
    1.  The women sure are happy.
    2.  Wow, that's some good singing.

    ~ New discoveries this month
    Music:  Jamie Soles
    Art:  Frederick Morgan
    Food:  Jamie Oliver (via Netflix)

    ~ Deep, philosophical questions:
    Should I catch up on my unfinished reading
    or start new with
    The Summer of Southern Literature?
    (doesn't that have a nice ring to it?)

    Perhaps Southern Lit needs a year?

    ~  A new season, a new transition.
    I've been teaching my kids at home since 1994.
    And that job is completed.
    I've accepted a full-time job at a local pharmacy.
    My title is Manager of Internal Operations.
    My husband and I decided that it would be good
    for me to work 2-3 years to fulfill our financial goals. 
    I'm using my gifts in an unexpected way.
    A big change.

    ~ A never-done-before, breath-taking wedding processional
    I'm playing for a wedding this Saturday.
    The bride wants to come down the aisle to...
    Amazing Grace.
    I need to make some stylistic decisions.
    I'm thinking quiet, elegant, open chords.